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Bill babbin posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
On Sep 8, 1930 my Grandparents, devout Catholics received a set of twins. Sept 8, is also the virgin Mary’s birthday, so they gave the first twin the middle name of Anne, the name of the virgin Mary’s mother and the second they gave the middle name of Mary, thus Paula Mary. As her parents before her my mother’s life was centered around the church. Her proud and strong commitment to her faith helped to define who she was: a loving wife, proud of husband and marriage, family, grandchildren and great grandchildren, she was also very proud that she was a Eucharistic minister.
Today I’d like to memorialize my mother by talking about what Paula Babbin meant to our family. All Mothers hold a special place in every child’s heart; mothers teach us tenderness, caring and how to love, some of lives first lessons. We learn those lessons early on from examples such as; a mother’s understanding of hurt feelings, or, as your protector, or, for providing that sweet gentle kiss, placed just perfectly on the small bump, bruise or scratch that only a mother can make feel better.
In a world that is sometimes rough around the edges, my mother showed us the softer spots. She reminded us that we needed to live in the moment and appreciate what we had; she encouraged us to do better, had high expectations and standards for herself and expected the same from her family. Ma could let you know when she was disappointed with you with just a look, she could also stop you in your tracks with her wit and bluntness, but she was quick to show you love through her hugs and unforgettable smile
Ma loved a good joke and was quick to tell one even if it wasn’t politically correct. She always knew how to have a good time and loved everyone. Her favorite thing to do with the grandkids and later the great grandkids was to scare them with her false teeth tricks. She couldn’t wait to pull it on each new grandchild at the appropriate age and time. The time was always when they were snuggled in for a hug on her lap, she would look at them daringly, and then that was her moment to show them that her teeth were removable. There’s also no bigger cheerleader in your corner than you’re Ma. I remember my mother telling me that when I graduated college that she would buy me a car. Well, she held up on her deal. I showed her my diploma recently, and she kept her promise, she gave me a matchbox car. That was my Ma, always kept her promises, but was always one step ahead of you.
As a young boy, I remember feeling extremely lucky because not only did I have the most beautiful mother ever, she was also the best cook in the world. Ma made the best lasagna and Italian dishes. She was proud of her Italian heritage and worshipped and loved her parents very much. I remember my mother crying when we moved to N.J. for 4 years. She was crying because of how much she was going to miss her parents and sisters. She was very happy when the family relocated back to MA 4 years later. Ma passed that love of family down to all of us and she continued to display the love and pride through her grandchildren and great grandchildren.
Ma and dad had a very loving relationship and would frequently embrace and dance in the house to the sounds of their own music. Their loving relationship to one another came above everything else. The both doted on each other, and above all else, displayed respect to one another. And Ma made sure there were lines of respect that her children didn’t cross. We never sat in our father’s chair and we couldn’t touch the newspaper, or mail, before he had a chance to look at them.
Ma believed in community and this was consistently displayed through her involvement in the town as an engaged community member. She served her civic duty through her involvement in town leadership positions, serving on multiple boards; She is the current Chairman of the Board for the Carver Council on aging, she served as a Carver Selectman for at least six years and was the Chairman of the selectman committee for 3 years (first woman chairperson town of Carver). She was on the local Board of health and served as the chair. During this period, she stayed involved in every detail of town business and led many projects throughout the town such as working to raise money for the 1st town Fire Department “Jaws of Life” and the new library building project. There were even reports that our brother Stephen was taking an interest in town meeting and could sometimes be seen with his hand raised in the audience.
While Ma worked hard, she also taught us to play harder. She loved having fun and was the life of the party; she filled the room with her spirit. For those of you in this room, I can say with certain that every time you were in a room with her, she made you laugh, and those laughs have turned into some of the best memories. Last night many of you shared stories about her humor and character; we enjoyed hearing them all and are happy that she made so many others laugh. I remember how much she looked forward to going down to Foxwoods with Diane and Elizabeth to go win some money at the slot machines. I’ll always think of her when I watch a Patriots game on Sunday afternoon or the Red Sox during the summer. She never missed a game. I’ll be missing her before the next game since; I always turned to her to get her thoughts before and after the game. She knew more about the games and the players than many of us in this room.
Ma was also tough and was very blunt and told it like it was. Once after a haircut, I asked her if she liked my hair cut and her comment back was that “she did” and that now she “could see my eyes better and would be keeping an eye on me”. I know that still holds true today. She is still watching all of us and sharing the wonderful memories we have created over the years with her sister, June.
The memories are what will get us through these stormy days ahead. Dad, as I looked through pictures of you and Mom and recalled all the memories, I always remember the two of you holding hands, walking this life side by side. The love that the two of you share has taught us all in this room that endless love does exist. Not only has it been envied by your children but also your grandchildren, family and friends. Though Ma has left us, know that she is always with you. When you wear the robe she bought you for Christmas, she is with you, when you hug Buddy, she is there, for every step you take, she is walking with you. There is nothing in this World that Ma wanted more than to protect you. We are all here for you. Diane, what more can I say than you were Ma's best friend. The love and support that you provided her means a lot.
The passing of Ma leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. She will live on through our memories. When the Red Sox and New England Patriots play, we will remember her. When we eat Chinese food, we will also speak in Chinese and remember her. We will continue to make her famous Pasquina face and laugh by remembering her. The memories that we have of one of the greatest people we know, Paula Babbin, will be shared at parties, family gatherings, weddings and casual conversations and we will continue to remember her so she lives on.
Roman 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
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Paulette posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
Lee-I am so sorry to hear that you lost your mother. I just heard about it today. Sending prayers your way.
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Joanne Carter and Steven Pimental posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
To the Babbin family, so sorry for you loss. Our deepest condolences.
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Mariann and Bob Wilcox posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
Our condolences to Paula's family. Please find comfort knowing that your wonderful Paula made an impression on many of us.
Paula had a way of bringing out the best in all of us. She will be extremely missed.
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Joan Christiano posted a condolence
Friday, January 5, 2018
My deepest sympathy, Don, to you and all your family. We have known each other for many, many years and just wanted you to know that we were thinking of you.
Love
The Christiano Family
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Kathy Scanzillo posted a condolence
Friday, January 5, 2018
Dear Don and family. I was heartbroken to hear of Paula's passing. I will always remember her quick wit and big heart. I've known Paula for 17 + years and admired her for all she did for the town, COA, and our village. She always made me and everyone else laugh with her quirky sense of humor. Life for all of us will not be the same without Paula, she was one of a kind (the best kind).
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Mary Harriman posted a condolence
Friday, January 5, 2018
Please accept mine and my husband's condolence's on the loss of your wife, mom, and grandchildren. Your wife Paula was a great friend, and will be missed by all who new her. Every time we were together she would make us laugh. Again our heart felt condolence's to your entire family.
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Christine and Peter Cokinos posted a condolence
Thursday, January 4, 2018
Peter and I send our deepest sympathies.
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Claire m Phillips posted a condolence
Thursday, January 4, 2018
Paula was a long time worker at the bingo games at Our Lady Of Lourdes in Carver when I got to know her.I served with her as a Lector as well. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Claire Phillips
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Grace Gardiner posted a condolence
Thursday, January 4, 2018
My deepest sympathy in the loss of Paula. She was a strong presence in the community, and particularly so in the Village where she lived. She will surely be missed.
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Donna Buonopane Houston posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
My father Edward Buonopane and I along with the rest of our family send our love and condolences to all of you. We loved Paula and so enjoyed her company. For many years my parents went on yearly vacations with Paula and Don they always had the best time and always came home with funny stories of their escapades! She will be greatly missed by all of us. We are keeping all of you in our prayers, and wish you all love and peace.
The Buonopane family
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June and peter benson posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
To my very funny and very talented aunt......I will always remember the family times filled with fun and laughter also all the memories growing up with you......the summer vacation in Maine while uncle Don was away in reserves....Im sorry your gone it will be empty for a long time
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Sabrina, Tim, Connor & Parker Dalton posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
Grammy was truly one in a million. She taught us to play hard but to love harder. I’ll always remember her funny escapades and stories. She will be greatly missed but will live on through all the wonderful memories
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Diane Babbin disciullo posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
Mom We miss you so much ... Life will never be the same
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eric osborne posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
im so sorry diane i love you guys and ill keep u in my prayers
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Virginia Eldridge posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 2, 2018
My sincere sympathy to Don & family. I was Paula’s neighbor for almost 20 years. She was a very special lady and always enjoyed any time spent with her.
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Andrea Babbin Wood posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 2, 2018
One can only be so lucky to have had someone like my grandmother in their life. So many great memories growing up! We will forever miss you but will smile and laugh and cherish all the memories and time spent together!
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